tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post7463093411190462402..comments2024-03-27T05:20:57.996-04:00Comments on Monica Wilkinson: Clothing: All my thoughts hung out on the line!Monica Wilkinsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17235919587298518908noreply@blogger.comBlogger52125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-81120605540522512772008-07-18T21:20:00.000-04:002008-07-18T21:20:00.000-04:00Hi Monica! I couldn't help but comment on this po...Hi Monica! I couldn't help but comment on this post. I have a tough time with clothes too. I have finally said...I will no longer buy anything unless I LOVE it. I don't need that many clothes...most people with a ton of clothes only wear about 20% of their wardrobe anyways. So buying less allows me to spend a little more on better quality pieces. But I still think most clothes are ridiculously overpriced and I just cannot spend $200 on a shirt. (I am a professional...so I need suits for work.) Is there a B Moss store by you? They have nice, feminine, quality clothes. They have a few trendy things...but they carry classic, modest, comfortable, and reasonably priced clothes as well. I have also have great luck at Stein Mart and Dress Barn. Hope that helps.Milissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04986484484324086968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-61232971255801226582008-07-18T21:18:00.000-04:002008-07-18T21:18:00.000-04:00Hi Monica! I couldn't help but comment on this po...Hi Monica! I couldn't help but comment on this post. I have a tough time with clothes too. I have finally said...I will no longer buy anything unless I LOVE it. I don't need that many clothes...most people with a ton of clothes only wear about 20% of their wardrobe anyways. So buying less allows me to spend a little more of better quality pieces. But I still think most clothes are ridiculously overpriced and I just cannot spend $200 on a shirt. (I am a professional...so I need suits for work.) Is there a B Moss store by you? They have nice, feminine, quality clothes. They have a few trendy things...but they carry classic, modest, comfortable, and reasonably priced clothes as well. I have also have great luck at Stein Mart and Dress Barn. Hope that helps.Milissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04986484484324086968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-41347439839257033722008-06-12T00:43:00.000-04:002008-06-12T00:43:00.000-04:00Although you have many comments on this topic, I c...Although you have many comments on this topic, I couldn't resist leaving one too.<BR/><BR/>I really dislike shopping. Therefore, when I do go shopping I like to shop for clothing that has a modest clasic style that will be "in" for several years. <BR/><BR/>The most important thing I do when I shop is take a friend AND a digital camera. My friend will take photos of me in various outfits. The photo gives me an "objective" view of what the outfit looks like on me. Does it fit my personality, is the color complimentary, etc.<BR/><BR/>Every since I began taking the digital camrea along, I haven't bought anything I didn't feel comfortable in or enjoy wearing.<BR/><BR/>tbMrs. B, a very peculiar personhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03579160731517930694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-19424150765872888362008-05-23T23:00:00.000-04:002008-05-23T23:00:00.000-04:00enjoyed your blog. i wear dresses a lot of the tim...enjoyed your blog. i wear dresses a lot of the time, but wear jeans a lot too. more relaxed and comfortable. i try to look feminine.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03816096081381689162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-3238537357885656582008-05-23T22:56:00.000-04:002008-05-23T22:56:00.000-04:00enjoyed the blog. i have been thinking a lot about...enjoyed the blog. i have been thinking a lot about what i wear because i have just started attending a fundamental baptist church where the women only wear dresses. i found a lot of good websites on the subject and have tried to wear only dresses. it is fun, but i still feel the most relaxed and comfortable in jeans. i try to be modest and feminine while wearing them. i wear dresses a LOT, though.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-75449399035100247392008-05-08T14:51:00.000-04:002008-05-08T14:51:00.000-04:00Monica, I'm Carrie's old roommate from college and...Monica, I'm Carrie's old roommate from college and I suffered from this same problem going from pregnant woman to me again. I had to re-decide what really suited me and my personality. One thing that has been really helpful to me is that I took a day and just went around and tried on jeans. Different sizes, different brands, etc. When I found one that I really liked, I'd make a note of it. Then I started looking for that specific pair on Ebay. If you choose a popular store like GAP or Old Navy, etc, you can find lots of jeans on Ebay from there. I rarely spend more than $8 on a good pair, never even have to leave the house and I know when I sit down what I'm looking for. It saves me a TON of time and headache!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09656279819896712711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-15137030167181696262008-04-13T18:16:00.000-04:002008-04-13T18:16:00.000-04:00I'm petite too. Having been a SAHM for more than ...I'm petite too. Having been a SAHM for more than 18 years, and a very modest income, I have relied more on the blessings of others rather than going out to buy my own clothes. It is frustrating to never feel like I fit what is passed on to me, but wear it because it is what God has provided. I do some alterations, but not to jeans. If they don't fit, they simply get worn as is. To be perfectly honest, I don't really have time to alter things. Homeschooling teenagers needs more focus and time than my wardrobe - so it goes by the wayside.<BR/>In the last couple years I have begun to purchase some things at thrift stores and at online sales/outlets. What I have determined to do is only buy what does fit well, and to buy classic styles that will endure through the fads. Simple lines, unpatterned, good fabric, and modest. Some brands that I feel do this well (though even their stuff makes me think of Grandma at times) are: Nomadic Trader, Soft Surroundings, Christopher Banks, Eddie Bauer, Garnet Hill & Lands End. Remember - I said outlets and sales!!<BR/> I'm very hard to fit too. My proportions aren't typical petite. I'm proportioned more like an average person (legs and torso about even in length) but am 5' 2.5" <BR/>I buy once a year only, and save, save, save until that time comes.<BR/>Let me say that I have 2 girls and a son whom I want to set a good example for. I have instilled in them that being clean, being modest, and presenting yourself friendly & respectable will be a crown of honor in the end. <BR/>I so enjoy coming here, Monica. You (and Carrie) post about things that we do and walk through, but I never think to post on them. It's a joy to know other sisters-in-Christ who wrestle through and rejoice in integrity, honor and stewardship. blessings ~DDeeapaulitanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06779311373562097618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-23997426370568795042008-04-12T19:54:00.000-04:002008-04-12T19:54:00.000-04:00I just did a post on my blog on modesty and you ar...I just did a post on my blog on modesty and you are right there is so little out there.<BR/>I like Christopher Banks...<BR/>ALSO I am totally a thrift shop girl.<BR/>Basic sewing is all that is needed t omake easy tops and skirts or exchange talents with someone that sews better than you.<BR/>I do not like anything fitted as I do not believe the Lord would have us call attention to our body in a way that could possibly stumble a brother. I don't believe in thinking tooo much on this and it can lead to coveteousness and make you unhappy with what you have.<BR/>Yet, I do know when I go out I am a representative for our Lord.<BR/>Keep searching..<BR/>if interested, my post was two days ago, called Heart 2 Heart.<BR/>Deby~~Debyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03288057520112643825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-88616507070985665282008-04-12T18:29:00.000-04:002008-04-12T18:29:00.000-04:00Hi ladies! I've never posted a comment to this blo...Hi ladies! I've never posted a comment to this blogg, but Monica asked me to add my two cents on fashion. I hope I am not redundant on the great comments that are already posted!<BR/>1. Dress up an ordinary outfit with hoop earrings or "chandeliers". You'll be amazed at how an outfit is transformed from simple to pizazzy! I was freaked out by them when they first come out and now it's all I'll wear. <BR/>2. For a sporty, casual look, layer a short-sleeved t-shirt over a long-sleeved top, e.g., I love to put a pink t-shirt over a white long-sleeved top for a feminine but sporty look.<BR/>3. DO NOT buy something just b/c it is a bargain - it will end up in the Goodwill pile before you know it and you'll regret wasting money on an impulse buy.<BR/>4. Always wear a belt, or, to dress up an outfit, tie a pretty scarf around your waist. This gives your shape definition and completes your outfit by tying it all together.<BR/>5. Tie a short scarf around your neck! Like the scarf worn as a belt, this fashion tip can spruce up any outfit and you'll have so much fun shopping for pretty scarves- they are just so much fun!<BR/>6. Clean out your closet - get rid of anything that makes you feel drab or frumpy, even if it means wearing something you like more often. It is not worth it to feel frumpy!<BR/>7. Once you've cleaned out your closet, try to put together more blends of outfits with what you have. I have been shocked by the number of mixing and matching I can do with a modest wardrobe! YOu'll feel like you have a new outfit w/o having to spend the money!<BR/>8. Start a budget - even if it is $15 a month, start saving for a mini shopping spree for yourself.<BR/>9. As someone already said, get your colors done. If you don't have the money, shop with someone who will be honest and who will make you STRETCH. Try on colors and styles that you normally wouldn't - you'll be surprised!<BR/>10. Last but not least... a tip from my sweet late mother. I always remember her putting on her makeup and a nice blouse before my dad came home. Even if you only have time to put on some lip gloss or lipstick, do it. You will feel prettier and your husband will know you care enough to make yourself attractive to him.<BR/><BR/>Make it fun!<BR/>Susan WhiteAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-41625955944892587622008-04-12T15:25:00.000-04:002008-04-12T15:25:00.000-04:00well, i'm late to the party, but felt like adding ...well, i'm late to the party, but felt like adding my 2 cents...<BR/><BR/>I typed out a HUGE comment but I'm just going to post it on my blog instead. LOL You can read it here:<BR/>http://mamaknj.blogspot.com/2008/04/avoiding-mom-jeans.html<BR/><BR/>Great topic! I personally try to buy well-made, higher end clothes on clearance. A few simple, well fitting peices can go a long way.mama khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05070909433011566246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-57299958269396647932008-04-12T14:02:00.000-04:002008-04-12T14:02:00.000-04:00I do enjoy reading your ideas and seeing your phot...I do enjoy reading your ideas and seeing your photos...even though I am no longer a young woman!! One can learn from younger women too.<BR/><BR/>I did go to see the styles on the Christa Taylor site (as I have a young daughter of 24 at home with us yet) and though most looked ok, I was taken aback when I went on the "blog" link to her blog and saw the list on the right sidebar under "blogging chicks"...go and see if you see anything awry there. I am as careful as I can be about who we buy from...and getting more all the time, regardless of how nice the article may be. At my age there are WONDERFUL choices in one brand, but I never buy it unless from a thrift shop or like ROSS, because I know that half the profits go to that person's church (the church of satan) and I have no desire to further the goals of that!! Just a thought...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-75946341903847726342008-04-11T16:46:00.000-04:002008-04-11T16:46:00.000-04:00Monica, as I read through all your comments I real...Monica, as I read through all your comments I realized how each of us may choose different clothing based on geography and occupation. People on the coasts tend to get more dressed up than those of us in the midwest, for example. And lovely trousers for the downtown office may not work well for a stay-at-home mama doing inner city ministry. <BR/><BR/>Happy shopping to you!RThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04950242851880071880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-59051400257402108502008-04-11T15:46:00.000-04:002008-04-11T15:46:00.000-04:00First... "Cold Water Creek"...some of it's a bit p...First... "Cold Water Creek"...some of it's a bit pricey, but they have an excellent clearance section on their website, and beautiful, well made clothes. <BR/><BR/>Another thing to learn are your "colors"...there are books and such on this that are normally available at the library...this really helps to make even casual outfits look good!<BR/><BR/>I've learned lots from (blush) watching TLC's What Not To Wear...you do have to sort of ignore the hosts, because they can come across as harsh and pushy (thank you TV and editing!) but you can learn lots about fitting your body type from this! <BR/><BR/>You might want to also look up "Missus Smarty Pants"...I'm sure if you google her you'll come up with her webpage. She sort of does long distance personal shopping. She helps you to plan your wardrobe, and learn how to get a basic wardrobe where everything mixes and matches, then how to supplement it with "fun" pieces. Might be worth it!<BR/><BR/>I personally have found that it's often just easier to sew my own clothing...it takes a bit of trial and error to learn how to get things to fit right and alter a pattern, etc. but I've been really happy with the results! <BR/><BR/>Maybe if you post more about the types of clothing you're particularly interested in, people could share their favorite patterns or shops for those things? Like if you're more interested in multi occasion (every day to church etc.) skirts over modest shorts...it might be interesting to see what everyone has found!<BR/><BR/>Best of luck to you!<BR/>~Mackenzie<BR/>(who has been lurking here for ages!)Mackenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14573352650363400811noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-10068865499761897002008-04-11T11:56:00.000-04:002008-04-11T11:56:00.000-04:00Did you see the list of clothing websites on this ...Did you see the list of clothing websites on this post?<BR/><BR/>http://thesparrowsnest.typepad.com/the_sparrows_nest/2008/04/today-i-have-th.html<BR/><BR/>I am in love with April Cornell now! A little pricey, but a few nice items from there would be a wonderful addition to a basic wardrobe. I plan on keeping an eye on the "April's Attic" for sale items, too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-54072769224847287002008-04-11T11:01:00.000-04:002008-04-11T11:01:00.000-04:00I think we all struggle with this, Monica. It is s...I think we all struggle with this, Monica. It is so hard to find what makes you feel beautiful, but when you find it...heaven! <BR/><BR/>Lately, I have been drawn more to bright and cheery colors. I love red, kelly green, and blues.<BR/><BR/>As for shopping, I do find most of my clothes at the thrift store and I also get the majority of my stuff from the clearance rack at Target. I got some really great shirts for summer for $3 each- the smalls and x-smalls tend to have the most so if you are petite, you are in luck.<BR/><BR/>If you have a Steve & Barry's, they have the Bitten line from Sarah Jessica Parker, that is affordable and they have short jeans for $20! <BR/><BR/>Payless is wonderful for shoes :)Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10635304837180578317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-61733235323965410272008-04-11T10:50:00.000-04:002008-04-11T10:50:00.000-04:00This might be a long comment, but I'll try to shar...This might be a long comment, but I'll try to share everything I've learned about clothing over the past few years since my migration to the NYC area.<BR/><BR/>I'm in a little different boat because I haven't had kids so I'm not dealing with the "baby body" yet, but a few years ago I decided it was time to pay a little more attention to how I dress instead of just jeans and a t-shirt. Afterall, I wasn't in college, nor did I live in CO anymore.<BR/><BR/>My favorite places to shop are Ross, Marshalls and the clearance rack at Macy's and Lord & Taylor. Even Sears has some good stuff now and then. So does NY & Company. I like these stores because you get name brand for at least half the price. I have learned that name brands does normally translate to better quality (i.e. the fabric is better so it hangs on the body nicer and holds up longer). Also, you have to be willing to take the time necessary to try on many different things to find the one that works. I'm not the fastest clothing shopper, but I'm prepared to spend at least one hour in every store and it's worth trying on 20 pairs of pants if I find one that I know I'll wear a lot.<BR/><BR/>I've also become a fan of alterations. I'm tall with a small waist, but athletic thighs (and a "J.Lo" booty as my mom says!) and have always had a problem when buying pants. I've learned you can't be stuck in a certain "size" that you wear. All clothing manufacturers use different fit models for their clothes; what's a size 4 for one could be an 8 for another. Thus, it's sometimes better to go a size bigger than you may normally wear and have the waist taken in or the sleeves shortned or whatever it may be.<BR/><BR/>I watch a lot of "What Not to Wear" and shows like that to get ideas. I'm not a fan of everything they put together, but I have learned that having some classic pieces that you can mix and match and adding a few pieces that are in the fashion of the day make you look younger and more put together.<BR/><BR/>The most important thing your clothing can do for you is make you feel attractive and confident. I've noticed that on days I put the extra 10 minute effort in to getting ready (i.e accesories, shoes that aren't tennis shoes), I feel more outgoing and have a brigther outlook on my day. Also, my husband finds me more attractive!<BR/><BR/>My biggest secret I've learned is that a good fitting pair of trousers (and I'm not talking khakis) is MORE comfortable than my favorite pair of jeans. It doesn't take any more time to throw slacks on instead, but you instantly look like you put effort in to getting ready.Briehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17512486265530056771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-48280667484775759912008-04-11T07:46:00.000-04:002008-04-11T07:46:00.000-04:00Cotton dresses all day, most every day. Love em!!...Cotton dresses all day, most every day. Love em!!! Pretty, soft, comfy, feminine!!!!! This is not a conviction for me, just a preference. I do believe the Lord wants modesty for us, it is just understanding what that means really. I had a pastor in another city we lived in for a while and he would ask *do ya get it?*. The correct response was not nearly enough!!!! ;^) I understand that we need to be careful and not draw anyone into temptation. But the details of all that i am still tryin to figure out!!!!Thanks for an interesting topic-tammypAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-18566022366556125672008-04-11T06:48:00.000-04:002008-04-11T06:48:00.000-04:00I always get excited when I see fashion posts! It ...I always get excited when I see fashion posts! It is tough when you don't feel put together, and it was starting to become an idol to me to have soemthing that made me look sleek and with it when I went to church. I was turning it into my personal fashion show, as if everybody really cared, and was waiting with baited breath to see what I was wearing. I've repented but it is still a struggle.<BR/>I make nearly all of my own clothes. I buy t-shirts (though I am trying to get away from them some, and go more with button down blouses. I personally feel more put together in one, than a shirt thats been stretched out over the day from nursing), and if I can find one I'm pleased with, dresses, but everything else I usually make.<BR/>I'm expecting my third baby right now so maternity will be posing a problem. 99% of my wardrobe has been through 5 pregnancies (3 of my aunts and 2 of my own)and is dated and worn out.<BR/>A wardrobe must I would reccomend(sp?), is a denim blazer. YOu can dress up almost any outfit with it. I like to pare it with a black t-shirt, khaki skirt (I don't wear pants), my black maryjanes, and silver hoop earrings. I look and feel very put together.<BR/>Watch out for wearing a denim jacket with jeans- you end up looking to denimy. I wear a cute vintage looking black jacket I made with my jean skirts.<BR/>I also love the vintage look ( Have you seen MaryJanes Stitching Room , or MaryJanes Life Book? Great clothes!)<BR/>I can't really wear vintage styles well due to my body shape, so I fill my need by wearing vintage jewlry, or scaves, or a purse.<BR/>Go through clothing catalogs and pull out the pages of what catches your eye. After a while, you'll be able to get an idea of what your taste is, then take them along shopping with you, and look for similair items. Try them on, see how you like the cut of a top, or a skirt. If you have something to work from, I think it will make the shopping trip less overwelming.<BR/>Above all, remember that we as Christians are examples of the Lord. No matter what we are wearing, we are a testimony to Him, and we need every area of our life to reflect that, including how we dress. That tends to be the first thing I notice about people, and what we wear can speak volumns of how we act and what we believe.Bonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14512235100197627921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-27664869805979446362008-04-11T02:46:00.000-04:002008-04-11T02:46:00.000-04:00Hey, you know what.. I'm so sure that 'those other...Hey, you know what.. I'm so sure that 'those other moms' were probably thinking the same thing.. They liked how YOU looked and thought they looked frumpy.. it's a common thing I guess ;)<BR/><BR/>My 'problem' with clothing is this.. I would like to wear modest clothing, dresses and skirts.. you know, let's just say it.. CHRISTIAN clothing.. I mean, honestly.. people can tell you're a christian when you wear those clothes.. and they're great, BUT....<BR/><BR/>We're in a ghetto church. Heck, we're in a ghetto ministry. We go out and evangelise 'in tha hood'.. for one reason or the other people don't tend to take your words when you're all dressed nicely and looking like a rolemodel christian..<BR/><BR/>You have to be 'like them', they have to be able to relate to you and clothing says a big deal.. Now, I'm not saying I'll wear their clothes.. miniskirts.. leggings.. but I can't go there with my long skirt and buttoned up shirt either.. <BR/><BR/>So I'm finding it difficult to draw a line or find a style that pleases both worlds..<BR/><BR/>Greetings from the netherlands :)Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06021892170202864510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-42616440189806925672008-04-10T23:48:00.000-04:002008-04-10T23:48:00.000-04:00It was so interesting (and helpful!) to read these...It was so interesting (and helpful!) to read these comments. Apparently this is something a lot of us struggle with! I am looking forward to checking out some of the websites mentioned. <BR/><BR/>I think one reason some women look more "put together" is an intangible something -- a personal style that some people are born with and some of us have to work at finding. <BR/><BR/>Thanks for sharing! Love you, MomAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-14579381848162756572008-04-10T21:58:00.000-04:002008-04-10T21:58:00.000-04:00Hi Monica! I have to echo Susan P. that Missus Sm...Hi Monica! I have to echo Susan P. that Missus Smarty Pants was a great help to me. I just did the 3-month subscription for $10. People say how skinny I look now ... and it's not that I've changed sizes in the last year; it's that I've started wearing clothes that are flattering to my body style and coloring. AND I did some research and got a really nice haircut that is flattering. I think that makes a big difference, too.<BR/><BR/>I shop online at Fashion Bug for modest, flattering tops, at Kohl's dept store, Goody's dept store, and save my nice purchases for my favorite local shop, B. Moss.<BR/><BR/>I don't have nearly as many clothes as I used to, but they are mostly mix and match classic basics with some fun accessories that put a zing in the outfit.<BR/><BR/>My mission right now is to find some pretty, feminine tops and one or two pretty *everyday* dresses for spring and summer.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-41013922144666493352008-04-10T21:07:00.000-04:002008-04-10T21:07:00.000-04:00Oh Monica, I can so relate to everything you said....Oh Monica, I can so relate to everything you said. I just love how you share your heart with us:o) I'm excited to tell you something I have found that has really, really helped me! Remember probably last month when I did a post on how I don't know how to "dress myself?" lol I would literally break out into a cold sweat whenever I entered a clothing store because I felt so lost. It's so funny, when it comes to fixing up my house I don't have any problems, but when it comes to "fixing up myself," I feel like I am a fish out of water! So anyway, in the post I told y'all I decided to try missussmartypants.com that Mrs. Wilt had recommended. Basically,MSP becomes your personal shopper (not literally, just figuratively;o) I joined for the cost of$9.00 which will give me three months. (Basically the cost of several beauty magazines or happy meals) After you determine your body type MSP gives you all kinds of wonderful info about the style of clothing that would look best on you. Every Thursday she "goes shopping" at a different store and shows you many, many examples of these clothes. I never buy the clothes from these stores (and she isn't promoting that, she is just trying to give good visual examples) but I tuck those pics in my purse as examples for when I go shopping later on. One suggestion I have off the top of my head is this: she is big on accessories, she says that's where your personality really shines through. Since you love vintagy things you could go to Goodwill, yard sales, or even a good sale at Kohls and get some vintage style jewelry to give you the look you like! Anyway, I could go on and on about how much it's helped me but I'd take up too much room ~ but as matter of fact, I had already planned on doing a post or two about this very subject next week so you can hear more then!! Much love, Susan P.Susan P.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16123411088490778415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-60478562835415763882008-04-10T19:01:00.000-04:002008-04-10T19:01:00.000-04:00It's funny you are on this topic because just toda...It's funny you are on this topic because just today I went shopping for a shirt. I feel like I keep wearing the same ones. I can't afford to spend much but I tend to go to Goodwill, Walmart, or Cato which is close by. I feel like I look good in brights like: red, hot pink, aqua, royal blue but not lime, yellow or orange. Sometimes it is hard finding what you are looking for because other colors are in style in the stores. I like the elastic waist jeans that fit good but you can't see the elastic so no one knows.I refuse to wear the low rise-lol<BR/> I love knit tops but not tshirts. I have found if you can find inexpensive jewelry(I like Goody's) then you can pair it with something you have at home and feel like you look refreshed but didn't spend much! I also love printed capri's and have found many at Goodwill for $4!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-66973429797273535542008-04-10T16:44:00.000-04:002008-04-10T16:44:00.000-04:00Great topic and great blog!God Bless!!Great topic and great blog!<BR/><BR/>God Bless!!Tammyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04671123948444965510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617895.post-6283297381917517862008-04-10T16:41:00.000-04:002008-04-10T16:41:00.000-04:00I feel like a lot of popular styles these days are...I feel like a lot of popular styles these days are more modest. I love the t-shirts and blouses that are longer or even baby doll style. I've purchased several white camisoles or tank tops to wear under v-neck shirts or with lower cut jeans--immodesty problems solved! <BR/><BR/>As another tall gal, I agree with Melody... I buy long jeans at NY&Co and I love a few lines JCPenneys carries. I think women, especially moms, look better in new fashions that are a bit more fitted. Boxy looking t-shirts, ones that guys wear, are not at all flattering on us ladies! Sometimes I think women try to hide their bodies, as though breasts and hips are items to be ashamed of. While we shouldn't be exposing ourselves to strangers, I believe there are appropriate, beautiful, feminine ways to dress that help boost our confidence.RThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04950242851880071880noreply@blogger.com