Well, just wanted to let you know that we have had some progress in the Emily feedings! I tried several of the suggestions I received and things are going much better.
She has not had any baby food in probably 48 hours and is eating table food happily! Last night, I let her hold a spoon while I fed her and that also worked great. Also, Mom - you were right - at breakfast, she just isn't very hungry. But gets hungry around 9, so we're just adjusting a few things.
Thanks for your input - we're encouraged!